Date the person, not the picture.

Bower is a dating app built around anonymity. Nobody shows their face: every member has a pseudonym and a generated avatar, and people match on what they are looking for and what they have to say.

No photos

Pseudonyms and generated avatars. People meet you for who you are, not how you photograph.

Match on intent

Say what you actually want (chat, flirt, dating, casual, friendship, networking) and meet people who want the same.

Selfie verification

Members can verify themselves with a selfie that stays private: others only see a verified badge, never your face.

Conversations that move

A conversation with no message for 72 hours is archived. No pile of dead matches.

A question every day

A daily question to answer; your answer appears on your card and makes a first message easy.

Adults only, built in the EU

18+ only. Data hosted in the European Union, under EU law.